Sometimes I forget how lucky I am. My past is my past, and I can’t keep letting it dictate my future. I have a boyfriend now he tells me I’m beautiful every day and takes care of me. He puts up with my crazy and my problems, and does everything in his power to fix it. He has never lied or done anything to betray my trust. He is truly my best friend and somebody I can count on any hour of any day. We aren’t perfect and things are definitely hard sometimes, but we make each other stronger and I’m proud to call him my boyfriend. This is what I should be focusing on. Not some pussy who lied, cheated, and abused me. I am better than that and will never settle ever again.
How do you become secure? I seriously go through my day analyzing every move I make and wondering what people think. It’s destroying my relationship and it’s crippling. Constant thoughts like “oh he never said anything about my nudes he must not be attracted to me anymore.” And “that girl he works with is pretty and a lot more accomplished than me he probably wants to bang her” and so and on so forth. I let one guy destroy my self image and my mind and I will never be the same. I hate myself because I feel weak for thinking like this. I just want to wake up and look in the mirror and feel attractive. And I want to be secure in my relationship. I don’t even know if it’s an achievable goal at this point.
“Knowing that he wouldn’t be there for her wedding, a terminally ill father walked his 11-year-old down the ‘aisle’ years early with the pastor sweetly pronouncing them ‘daddy and daughter’.
Jim Zetz, 62, from Murrieta, California, who has stage 4 pancreatic cancer, proudly held his daughter, Josie’s hand during their backyard ceremony on March 14 and placed a sparkling ring on her index finger.”
This is the saddest fucking thing I have seen omg I can’t
Oh—you wouldn’t date a girl who’s ever been a stripper?
In that case, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s ever been to a strip club.
Oh—you wouldn’t date a girl who’s ever done porn?
In that case, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s ever watched porn.
You’re the reason we exist.
You’re the demand to our supply.
If you disdain sex workers, don’t you dare consume our labor.
As they say in the industry, “People jack off with the left hand and point with the right.”
Rape, By The Numbers.
everyone needs to see this graphic
I linked this to my guy friends who always use the excuse of “What about the false reports? It’s not fair that innocent men are accused of a crime they didn’t commit”
2 out of 1000. 0.02% Of all rapes are false.